Sunday, February 14, 2010

"Secret Smile" -- Semisonic

Yesterday I dubbed Valentine's Day singles awareness day. Trust me there have been Valentine's Day's where it's felt like singles awareness day like whoa. My man and I had a quality day celebrating the night before the actual day. I kid you not.. the best Valentine's Day to date. I'm not normally one who makes a big deal about this holiday especially. This year I wanted to make it a big deal for the man who treats me so incredibly well, gets me excited to be with him, and is so open with me. Everything is on the table with him. We're just ourselves and real. I've never been this open or never needed to hide one single thing before. He appreciates me for the woman I am and makes sure to remind me frequently. Hearing that you're the best and an incredible woman, not to mention how easy it is to be with him and share things with him; after a life altering event is something that you don't take lightly. I've never felt this way so early on. I would do anything for that man if he needed it..

"Love the people who treat you right, forget the ones who don't." I mean not being a big Valentine's Day girl...roses, chocolates, and candles made me melt. Typical chick statement I know. lol I made him dinner, baked him a pie, and got him beer. I am kind of an amazing girlfriend right? What man doesn't want beer and some quality time to show them you care?

How I got so lucky with him I have no clue. He met me before the accident. Stuck by my side and brought me flowers in the hospital. Made the time and effort to remember me and visit me when we were just acquaintances at that point. Took me out for a couple dates in public sporting the brace and didn't think twice about being even close to being ashamed of me. "You're the kind of girl you can dress up and be a very attractive girl or the girl who can look good in jeans and a hoodie," he told me. That's right girls. I'll let you be jealous, but just remember he's all mine. lol

I think I should leave this Valentine's Day message with all of you.. Treat the ones who treat you well like gold. Never forget you deserve nothing but the absolute best and don't accept anything less. If you find a good one hold onto them very tight. Kosmic karma applies here too. Whatever is put out will be given back 10 fold.

Cheers! Here's to great significant others!

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